Ask yourself why you want her there. You need to have space to try on dresses – some of which will make you feel amazing and others not so much. You need a supportive voice not a critical one. I am more than happy for you to book in by yourself initially to narrow down your options and then you can bring mum in to see the final few if you prefer. I will not have body shaming in the boutique, so I am quite happy to tactfully remind her that it’s all about you and what makes you feel special. Remember, I am on your side even if she is not.